Why are people so insensative?

hi ,i m a jerk,to a lot of people ,cos allmost all of dem r idiots and metphorical fart,dey lie to gain sympthy and want others to cry with them fr things dat dont matrs.in ur case i find things are sad.ur husbnd is ded and ur child was brn premature.now lets talk bout ur new "hunny bunny".well everybody lies ,,u ,me ,politicians ,kids, and ur hunnybunny too,cos he is a human being after all.some lie to do good,some lie to do bad ,some lie cos dey r mentally sik,while ur new husband u bought on ebay lied because he is selfish.he was looking to move out frm d old house with u as soon as he cud so he had to acpt ur requst of keeping ur husbands pictures.but look d thing is ,when men nomatter dey are bad or good ,live in a house wid dere family ,dey want to feel it like dey r d "man of d house" ,d "key player" ,and dat dere wife love dem and only keep dem in dere mind.dat is why ur husband cant take it to luk at ur ex husbnds pic in house.it might have had made him think do by if ur ex pic remain hanging dere on walls,u wont forgt about him,ur child will ask u obviusly about d guy in the pic and u r gona tell her its her dad.so all dis makes ur husband feel a bit alienated ,,i m not chosing sides,but ur husband is not being an *** ,first he lived outside d house,but now he lives in side ur house ,where ur ex husbands pictures r hung everywhere,most of the men wants dere pic with dere family to b kept in dere house,it makes dem believe dat dis place is deres .d thing is simple ur husband is not as understanding as u thot him to b,but dat dosent mean he is a bastard.he is alredy being brainwashed by other ppl from his work.i know u have lost a lot and u have faced loneliness and sorrow ,cos 33 yrs is nt d age to get lonely and widowd,,,so if u want to keep ur husbnd pic ,keep it somewhere he doesnt minds or sees,cos even if he agrees dat he dosnt mind ,he will keep his anger inside him ,but dat will affect ur family.i know u have faced hardships a lot and dat now u want ppl to make u happy and care about u,bt u cant break certain rules,u can bend dem ,not completely break dem.